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Is A Divorcee, A Man With A Child or Even One With Multiple Baby Mamas One You Would Date? Yay or Nah? - ZUMI

3 months ago, 7 Mar 23:25

By: Lush Angela

The type of people we end up dating at this day and age will end up packaged as either a divorcee, a baby father, a baby father who has multiple baby mums or you might even meet someone who is a widower. If you are not thinking about this being your reality when meeting someone, then I urge that you start considering it as a likely possibility, so that way you can identify whether being with someone with that type of background is something that you feel you can handle. If you have met someone with any of the following as part of their past as well as it being part of their present, then here are few questions that should be running through your mind and the reasons as to why: If they did that, then it means that their past which might sieve into their present is something of importance to them and therefore they would rather you know, so if it is a deal breaker on your part then you can both avoid getting attached. If they are not then, this can make it challenging to get to know them because their past is part of who they have become and essentially what you like about them. So if they are not open about it then perhaps give them time to open up at their own time. If they still remain a closed book then have a conversation about it, and hopefully, that will lead them to be more open about their past as well as them sharing the reasons that make it challenging for them to be open up about it. You have to initially trust them when they say they are over their past relationship and are ready to move on. This will become clear in time by how they talk about their past, how they talk about the individual or individuals concerned. If you begin to feel they are not really over it, do express this with them and perhaps at that point take it slowly or if its a strong intuition then it would be advisable that you exit the relationship because you will end up getting hurt in the long run. It is important to realize that we all come with baggage, so don’t be too quick to judge, instead take time to understand their side of the story and in time the reality of the situation will be clear. As you get a better understanding of their past make sure that you are true to yourself and be honest with them if you feel you cannot handle their past. This doesn’t make you a bad person, they may feel bad about it but in the long run, they will appreciate you all the more for it.  
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Is A Divorcee, A Man With A Child or Even One With Multiple Baby Mamas One You Would Date? Yay or Nah? - ZUMI

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By: Lush Angela
The type of people we end up dating at this day and age will end up packaged as either a divorcee, a baby father, a baby father who has multiple baby mums or you might even meet someone who is a widower. If you are not thinking about this being your reality when meeting someone, then I urge that you start considering it as a likely possibility, so that way you can identify whether being with someone with that type of background is something that you feel you can handle. If you have met someone with any of the following as part of their past as well as it being part of their present, then here are few questions that should be running through your mind and the reasons as to why: If they did that, then it means that their past which might sieve into their present is something of importance to them and therefore they would rather you know, so if it is a deal breaker on your part then you can both avoid getting attached. If they are not then, this can make it challenging to get to know them because their past is part of who they have become and essentially what you like about them. So if they are not open about it then perhaps give them time to open up at their own time. If they still remain a closed book then have a conversation about it, and hopefully, that will lead them to be more open about their past as well as them sharing the reasons that make it challenging for them to be open up about it. You have to initially trust them when they say they are over their past relationship and are ready to move on. This will become clear in time by how they talk about their past, how they talk about the individual or individuals concerned. If you begin to feel they are not really over it, do express this with them and perhaps at that point take it slowly or if its a strong intuition then it would be advisable that you exit the relationship because you will end up getting hurt in the long run. It is important to realize that we all come with baggage, so don’t be too quick to judge, instead take time to understand their side of the story and in time the reality of the situation will be clear. As you get a better understanding of their past make sure that you are true to yourself and be honest with them if you feel you cannot handle their past. This doesn’t make you a bad person, they may feel bad about it but in the long run, they will appreciate you all the more for it.  
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