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When women get it right, men will know peace

7 months ago, 8 Mar 15:08

By: Tony Masikonde

It has been argued that one of the reasons why we men and women will not get along is because we perceive things differently. But I also feel, perhaps our Maker made us this way so that our relationships would always be abuzz. You see, when we get to agree on everything life can be a tad too boring. It is clear to me, beyond peradventure that we have to resign ourselves to a lifetime of bickering and suspicion, primarily perpetuated by the women. One of the things that will continue to haunt our supposed harmonious living happily ever after is that women tend to be or act suspicious about their partner’s actions. It could be for something as simple as a night out with friends or a meeting with a female colleague. A pal of mine heads the marketing division at his place of work and they don’t sell tractors, scissors  or gumboots, they sell fast moving consumer goods. Therefore, his phone is always ‘live’. As fate would have it he has a healthy contingent of female colleagues who will call and text at various hours of the night, depending on the severity of the matter. My buddy’s wife can hardly stand his hubby female colleagues. She is convinced they will be the end of their marriage. If there is another thing that women must put to a complete stop, it’s discussing their men’s varying performances between the sheets. Men just hate it when women share everything about their sex life with their girlfriends. How can a man feel comfortable knowing there are other women out there who know what goes on in the bedroom? But since we are men, we are around to brag about the size of our -you- know-what sine it makes a great conversation when we have had a couple of beers and gradually getting naughty. But mark my words, no man will go to the pub and brag how his girlfriend or female partner is good in bed that would be foolish. That would be suicidal. That would be thoughtless invitation of competition. We are smarter than that, even when we are drunk. We know that a passionate and ecstatic relationship is based on constant communication and touch. But making a big fuss of an anniversary out of everything, whether it’s the first time you held hands, the first date or the first kiss, and causing a ruckus it if he happens to forget it these days is probably the best way to suck life out of your erstwhile romantic relationship. If as a woman you have not been told this by your man, get it first-hand here. Trying to cuddle or kiss him when he is trying to work on an important project or when he’s on a call with a client can be exasperating. He could end up gasping funnily and if the caller on the other end happens to be a women, then she could have grounds to sue for sexual ...
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When women get it right, men will know peace

7 months ago, 8 Mar 15:08

By: Tony Masikonde
It has been argued that one of the reasons why we men and women will not get along is because we perceive things differently. But I also feel, perhaps our Maker made us this way so that our relationships would always be abuzz. You see, when we get to agree on everything life can be a tad too boring. It is clear to me, beyond peradventure that we have to resign ourselves to a lifetime of bickering and suspicion, primarily perpetuated by the women. One of the things that will continue to haunt our supposed harmonious living happily ever after is that women tend to be or act suspicious about their partner’s actions. It could be for something as simple as a night out with friends or a meeting with a female colleague. A pal of mine heads the marketing division at his place of work and they don’t sell tractors, scissors  or gumboots, they sell fast moving consumer goods. Therefore, his phone is always ‘live’. As fate would have it he has a healthy contingent of female colleagues who will call and text at various hours of the night, depending on the severity of the matter. My buddy’s wife can hardly stand his hubby female colleagues. She is convinced they will be the end of their marriage. If there is another thing that women must put to a complete stop, it’s discussing their men’s varying performances between the sheets. Men just hate it when women share everything about their sex life with their girlfriends. How can a man feel comfortable knowing there are other women out there who know what goes on in the bedroom? But since we are men, we are around to brag about the size of our -you- know-what sine it makes a great conversation when we have had a couple of beers and gradually getting naughty. But mark my words, no man will go to the pub and brag how his girlfriend or female partner is good in bed that would be foolish. That would be suicidal. That would be thoughtless invitation of competition. We are smarter than that, even when we are drunk. We know that a passionate and ecstatic relationship is based on constant communication and touch. But making a big fuss of an anniversary out of everything, whether it’s the first time you held hands, the first date or the first kiss, and causing a ruckus it if he happens to forget it these days is probably the best way to suck life out of your erstwhile romantic relationship. If as a woman you have not been told this by your man, get it first-hand here. Trying to cuddle or kiss him when he is trying to work on an important project or when he’s on a call with a client can be exasperating. He could end up gasping funnily and if the caller on the other end happens to be a women, then she could have grounds to sue for sexual ...
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